The disproportionately visible presence of transpeople and particularly vocal transwoman in the LGBT movement is misogynistically drawing attention and funding away from the problems and concerns of female lesbian and bisexuals galking the group.
The s of teenage girls seeking medical treatment for gender issues is rising extremely quickly, as shown by data from the Gender Identity Development Service GIDS of the Tavistock and Portman Trust, lesbian is the NHS centre of excellence for helping children and adolescents with gender dsyphoria and other issues of gender-variance. MPs will get two chances to do so tomorrow. Their argument — and I think it is well worth exploring — is that ideas of what men and women should do and especially look like have become more rigid and more narrow, meaning those who do not fit the stereotypes are open to the idea that they may not belong to the relevant gender.
Is that a reasonable position? Some of those transwomen describe themselves as lesbians, by which they mean they are sexually attracted to women.
Like any other group, they include good people and bad, saints and sinners, those who want to shout from the rooftops about their identity and those who just want to live their lives and be left alone. That is what true love is based on, not superficial things like looks or money as some of the other dating sites would lead you to believe. To some lesbians, honouring Playboy is more than a little hard to stomach because it is part of an industry that sells pornographic images of lesbian sex as an entertainment for straight men.
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Takling people find the fact that genitalia get discussed in the gender debate objectionable or prurient. Quite how many is somewhat unclear, since like most aspects of this debate, there is a dearth of reliable empirical data, but as a simple fact, it is possible under English law for a person born male to be legally recognised as female without undergoing surgery to remove or alter their male genitalia.
In this way you will be able to start a new relationship based on building real connections talking with each other first before finally meeting up in person. I do think it is legitimate question to ask, and that the people — lesbians and others — who ask it should be heard. Popular s. A glitzy event held at a London hotel, it gets publicity by giving gongs to celebrities and picks up sponsorship from banks, law firms, airlines and, this year, MI5.
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Can transgenderism talkong fact be understood as a form of conversion therapy for lesbians?
In the meantime, a final thought from me. Transgender people suffer prejudice and harm.
I think those concerns are reasonable and should be addressed. So for girls, talkiing theory goes, the common idea of femininity, aggressively promoted by a ceaseless online media marketing, now means pink and princesses and dresses and lovely long, glossy hair.
I do not have a conclusive answer and nor, so far as I can establish, do any of the clinical experts who work in this field. Indeed, some llesbians say that — not least because of very limited NHS capacity — as the population of transwomen grows, the proportion of transwomen who have had such surgery is falling and that retaining male genitalia while living as a woman is becoming common and even the talkung. This is, of course, about gender and the debate around gender and sex.
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But the reality is that if you want to find love, sometimes you have to take a little risk and try something new. GIDS data suggest that over half of all girls referred to the clinic report sexual attraction to female-born people. Anyway the key point is this: some transwomen have a penis and no intention of getting rid of it.